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None of the literally hundreds of close straight male friends I've had over the years have ever even floated the notion of any kind of experimentation. Some have joked about things like "a hole being a hole", but beyond that nothing. And ALL of the male friends that did talk about experimenting ended up coming out as gay (none bi) years later. young guys experiment with one another. it's perfectly natural, and nothing unusual about it.

if you enjoy it, just go with it. no need to overthink things at this stage. what you will do and how far it progresses is up to the two of you. don't do anything you don't want to do. it probably would be a good thing to talk things through between you, but it doesn't look like either of you is ready.

Experimentation is a totally normal and healthy part of sex, so we asked straight men in the BuzzFeed Community to tell us about their same-sex hookup encounters. Here are the fascinating results. Is it common for men to 'experiment' as boys? I (male) had my first gay experience when I was around 12 years old. It was with a friend (also male and around the same age) and went on for two or three years. It was relatively innocent, involving nothing more than mutual masturbation.

I never associated what we did with the idea of ‘gay’. As a gay man, I am frequently perplexed at the ways that toxic masculinity makes straight guys afraid to experience even the most basic forms of intimacy with their friends, like hugging. The Fine Print Information on this site is provided for educational purposes.

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So I slapped his and he got mad. However, you must stress to your son that this relationship needs to stop for now; not because his friend is a boy but because they're too young to be this involved both physically and emotionally. It is a delicate situation and you might drive it underground. How would this be different from a dominatrix fetish? We started texting, FaceTiming, and eventually hanging out again — all 'platonic.

It was exciting, fun, etc. I worked at a topless bar and we had this gay cook, Jason. Once we had talked things through a bit, it was all good. She's in a different state now, married to a man. That will give you a chance to say what you need to and him a chance to share how he's feeling. When we're taught to repress our sexuality, the lines between intimacy and friendship blur. Once with my arm around my then current gf.

Log in to update your newsletter preferences. He said he didn't fancy him but they had been messing about. OP it is normal at this age Embarrassingly, I waited for her. I dove in head first. I would have implimented a door-open policy or hang out downstairs only rule but I wouldn't have banished the kid! I never responded. I lived with a great deal of confusion about what my youthful experiences really meant about myself.

DaveX July 29, , pm Don't make him feel bad OP, tell him you love him and that he must not feel dirty or ashamed or guilty but that the law says he's too young and as his mum you agree. That isn't going to work. Now I'm back home in Texas, putting my life back together. Does your DS go to an all boys school?